Helping Extended Family Understand Your Child’s Unique Needs

Having strong relationships with extended family members can provide you with a great source of support. But some family members like grandparents, aunts, uncles and cousins may not understand autism spectrum disorder (ASD) and what it means for your family. Here are a few things you can do to help them learn more about ASD and create a positive, nurturing environment for your child. 

Educate Your Family Members About ASD 

Explain that autism includes a spectrum of behaviors. Typically, individuals with ASD have social and communication challenges, restricted interests and repetitive behaviors. You can also remind them that no two people with ASD will have the same symptoms and needs.   

Plus, you may want to ask them if they have questions about autism or your child’s treatment. What they might imagine autism looks like can be based on outdated stereotypes they’ve seen in the media. This doesn’t mean that your family members aren’t able to understand autism – it just means they have some learning to do, and you can help! By creating a safe space for questions, your family can feel more connected to you and your child.  

Explain Your Child’s Behaviors and Triggers 

Tell your family members about your child’s specific behaviors and what they might see. For example, let them know if your child has difficulties in social settings or making eye contact. Also, let them know if your child struggles when their routine is disrupted or if they can’t communicate their needs. You can explain that these behaviors are all signs of autism. It’s not that your child is purposely misbehaving, being rude or ignoring others. 

Another thing you can do is talk about how different situations may impact your child. Whether it’s a loud noise, a large crowd or simply the wrong color socks; your family should be aware of your child’s potential reactions to these situations and how best to soothe them.  

Ask Them for Help 

Once your relatives understand ASD, there are so many ways they can assist you and your child. They can babysit so you’re able to take a much-needed break. Or they can participate in your child’s favorite activities – even if that means playing with that cherished fire truck again and again. Whatever the case may be, engaging with your child on their level is a great way for grandparents, aunts, uncles, and cousins to strengthen their bond and form a meaningful relationship with your child.